Movie Review: Felicity

October 3rd, 2008

Felicity Movie My dad is out of town on business, and when he is gone we girls usually watch movies more than we normally would. Yesterday we watched “Felicity: An American Girl Adventure.”

Though my sister and I are a little old for American Girl dolls now, several people we know had said the movie was good, so we thought we’d give it a shot since we love the Colonial time period, and we figured that since it was put out by American Girl and geared toward younger girls, it would be pretty clean (which it was).

On the whole, the movie was very well done, with much higher quality than I expected. There were some cute parts, notably the ones with Felicity’s little sister, Nan, who is just so cute you could eat her up. But we found some major problems with the story line.

In the very beginning, Felicity “falls in love” with a beautiful horse owned by a grouchy old man, Jiggy Nye who abuses her. So the horse is mistrustful of humans in general, but Felicity determines to tame her. So far so good. But then the problem comes - Felicity sneaks out at night and feeds an apple to Penny (as she calls the horse). She does this multiple times, once getting caught by Mr. Nye. Then one morning Felicity’s grandfather tells her that he saw her coming back to the house, and she pleads with him not to tell. He agrees, but admonishes her to not do it anymore because she is fooling with someone else’s property. Felicity says, “Yes, grandfather.” And I was thinking, “Phew, now she’ll stop this nonsense.”

Or not.

That night she goes AGAIN, despite her grandfather’s command. Oh, and meanwhile she takes her father’s apprentice’s Sunday breeches from the mending basket, and rides Penny at night. Then Ben (the apprentice) catches her putting on the breeches in the barn, and of course demands a reason for her taking them.  So she takes him to see Penny, and while they are there, Jiggy Nye comes out and they duck behind the fence. Mr. Nye is in a temper for some reason, and is about to beat Penny, when she rips the rope and gallops off. Mr. Nye is in a rage and yells, “Well, anyone who can ride ye can have ye! I hope ye never come back!” and stomps into the house.

Now Felicity thinks she has the right to own Penny, because she can ride her. So she goes off and finds her, takes her home, and of course Mr. Nye shows up and takes her back. Felicity flees to the barn in tears. Then her father comes in and is all sympathetic. Instead of punishing her for stealing a horse, he praises her for “helping” it! And he tells her, “You’ve done everything you can.”  She responds,”Not everything.”

Here I think she has to be done sneaking out there, but noooo…. off she goes again in the middle of the night, and frees Penny - without permission from anyone.

Later Penny is found by some horse sellers, and Felicity’s grandfather buys her for Felicity. That seems like it’s fine, and now Felicity lawfully owns her but it’s not. She let the  horse go, not Jiggy Nye!

The other thing that had us disagreeing with the film was the whole spirit of independence that is promoted throughout the movie. I could call it feminism. When the subject of Patriots versus Loyalists comes up, Felicity’s family is Patriot, but her grandfather (and best friend) are Loyalists. In bed one night, Felicity asks her mother, “Mother, what should I be?” And - can you believe this - the mother says, oh so tenderly, “You’ll have to decide that for yourself.” Uh, beg your pardon? She’s TEN!

One other less noticeable, but still there problem was the dresses - Felicity’s gowns are VERY low cut. Of course, she’s ten, so it’s not showing anything, but still… There are also older ladies in the film who have low dresses and there is some cleavage.

And one last thing we noticed - though it is VERY subtle - is the fact that Felicity and her father’s apprentice Ben always “happen” to be thrown together - he escorts her to her lessons, and for the ball her father suddenly can’t escort her, so Ben goes with her, etc. And while it’s not that big of a part, you still get the impression that Felicity and Ben probably get married when they are grown up! And remember - she’s TEN.

After we finished watching it, my mom said, “And this is the girl that is being touted as someone little girls should look up to?” I mean, in an hour and a half they show her breaking the 5th, 8th, 9th and 10th (you might even say the 1st…) commandments, and imply that it’s okay! I wouldn’t have minded it if she got a good hard spankin’ after being found out, but instead she is praised!

Here’s some comments from others that I found on Amazon’s listing:

“…For [the] story’s sake, it might embellish on some truths such as little girls disobeying their parents without retribution (although I’m sure most of today’s youngsters will not follow Felicity’s lead in this).” Not sure where she gets that idea. Kids WILL follow examples, and there are many little girls out there who idolize Felicity.

“…I have been a constumes researcher for several period plays, and I can vouch that these costumes have been “modernized” (in terms of the low cut) as have the costumes worn by the actors in Williamsburg and most other historic sites. You can’t judge by such sites. I have to agree with the two previous reveiwers who mentioned it; the mother’s costumes in this piece are pretty far fetched, historically speaking. This point, btw, has got nothing to do with moralizing, but just being historically accurate. The upstanding mother of small children and the wife of a township store proprietor wouldn’t dress like a floozey and get away with it (the townspeople would have more reason to boycott his store than loyalist politics!!).” Preach it! :-)

“…I have heard so many great things about this series, that I was really looking forward to sharing the movie with my kids. The sets and costumes were beautiful to look at, but I sat opened mouthed as I watched this little terror of a child in action. I don’t see anything heroic or daring or admirable about her sneaking out of the house night after night to get into a pen with a dangerous horse, that isn’t hers. She steals the horse, and when she is finally forced to return it, she lets it go. The consequence of her behavior? Her indulgent grandfather finds the horse and buys it for her. It just seemed like whoever wrote it was trying to fasten their ideas to historical characters, and it just sounded overtly preachy. I have a hard time believing a child in colonial times would have gone around sounding like a mini-Betty Friedan. Ultimately, Felicity ends up learning to do housework and drink tea, and gets all excited about getting dressed up to go to a ball…so I’m not even sure what message the movie was trying to get across, other that it is OK to steal from mean ugly people with Scottish accents.” Had to laugh over that one… but she’s right…

“FELICITY is a beautiful film and a loving recreation of an era which one doesn’t often see on the screen. The cast is great and the film is entertaining. BUT the main idea presented to kids via the main character is indeed ‘disobey your parents and all will turn out well’.”

So, I suppose it is needless to say that I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this movie. :-)

The Importance of Dating

September 6th, 2008

Now, please don’t just click out of the screen in disgust. I am not talking about dating vs. courtship or anything like that. What I mean is putting the date on things.
What kind of things? Well - anything. Journal entries. Drawings or paintings you do. The letters and cards you write. The linens you make for your hope chest. For those of you mothers reading this, the little pictures you save that your children give you when they are little. You can find an inconspicuous spot on nearly anything to put a date.
Why? For generations to come. Hundreds of years from now, things you have made and written may have survived. How disappointing it would be for one of your great-great-great grandchildren to find them and know that they are old, but don’t know HOW old! Beatrix Potter, for example, wrote many letters and dated most of them; but only two, written to her father, survive from her childhood and they are UNDATED. I love finding things that have the date written on them so that I know exactly how old it was. When looking at old books in antique stores, the first thing I almost always do is look at the publication year - the older it is, the more chance that I will buy it. :-)
That said, I would also encourage you to write the full year. Instead of writing “September 6, 08″ write “September 6, 2008.” Why? Because in a couple hundred years, people may not know which “08″ it is! They may be able to guess based on the actual item, but it is only a guess. For instance, we have an antique woodstove dated Jan. 06. Well, it must have been from 1906 since it couldn’t possibly be from two years ago! But you see we use the same abbreviation for 2006 as 1906.

I hope this helps you to remember to take one more second to add the date. It’s important! :-)

Crock Pot Recipes

August 19th, 2008

Herb Potato Orange Roughy
Ingredients:
1 (10 3/4 oz.) can cream of celery soup
1/2 cup water
4 fresh or thawed orange roughy fillets
2 cups diced & cooked potatoes
1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro
1/4 tsp. dried oregano
1/2 tsp. dried basil
Lemon wedges for garnish

Instructions:
Combine the soup and water. Pour half into crock pot. Place the fillets on top, and put potatoes on top of the fillets. Pour the rest of the soup/water mixture over the top.
Mix cheese and herbs and sprinkle over the other ingredients in the crock pot. Cover and cook on high for 1 to 2 hours, being care to not overcook the fish.
Serve with lemon wedges if desired (squeezing lemon over the top really enhances the flavor).
Great served with acorn squash!
Serves 4.

Apple Raisin Lamb Chops
Ingredients:
6 lamb chops
2 apples, chopped
2 onions, sliced
1/2 cup raisins
1/2 cup water
1/4 cup brown sugar
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. cinnamon

Instructions:
Place chops in crockpot. Top with onion slices, apples & raisins. Mix water, salt, brown sugar and cinnamon together. Pour over top. Cook on high about 4 to 6 hours or until meat is tender. Enjoy!

Food for Thought

August 6th, 2008
Lost
Somwhere between sunrise and sunset
One golden hour, set with sixty diamond minutes.
No reward is offered, for it is gone forever.

- Unknown

Natural Beauty

July 2nd, 2008

I have a hobby of taking nature photos… enjoy!

White Begonia

 

Purple Coneflower

 

Orange Daylily

White Columbine

Lilacs

2008 Poetry Contest Results

May 31st, 2008

The day is here - time to announce the winners of the Maidens of Virtue Poetry Contest! We got some very good entries and it was difficult to choose!

Here are all the “announcements” and the actual poems follow:

The Grand Prize Winner in the 9-12 age category, “Having Joy in My Heart,” is:

Miss Kiah C.!

Honorable Mentions for this category are:

Miss Rebecca G. & Miss Robyn G. (sisters! :-) )

The Grand Prize Winner in the 13-25 age category, “A Sister’s Role in Her Sibling’s Life,” is:

Miss Kathryn I.!

Honorable Mentions for this category are:

Miss Heather E. & Miss Moriah O.

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And now for the poems…

Joy - 9-12 Grand Prize Winner

By Miss Kiah C.

Joy is as heavy as a hug

And as light as air.

Joy is in serving your family.

It is uplifting

And a trial to hold

And may be a sunbeam to carry

But most of all you find your joy

In the Lord. He gives it to us through

Friends and neighbors.

Joy is in the Lord Jesus.

Having Joy in My Heart - 9-12 Honorable Mention

By Miss Rebecca G.

I have joy in my heart with His love and His kindness,

I have joy in my heart with His mercy and grace,

I have joy in my heart with His loving care,

I have joy in my heart with His outstanding power

I have joy in my heart with His outstanding care,

Oh I have joy in my heart from Him!

Let’s Remember Paul - 9-12 Honorable Mention

By Miss Robyn G.

When I’m feeling low I turn to the bible and that gives me joy!

God wants us to read His word so we can have joy!

The book I love most is Philippians; I love all the verses in it!

Paul tells us to rejoice in all things and that we should count it all joy!

He also says to think on right things, so when we grumble and complain,

Are we counting it all joy? No.

So let’s remember Paul when he was sitting in chains in a Roman prison,

If he can count it all joy so can we.

We who live in comfortable houses and don’t have to wear chains!

So when we are tempted to grumble about doing the dishes or just doing our chores;

Remember Paul and have

JOY!!!

Blessed Sisterhood - 13-25 Grand Prize Winner

By Miss Kathryn I.

There is a special role, which only girls can fill,

Created by the Lord, part of His Sovereign will.

A mighty power have we, who have sister for a name,

A role to be desired, much more than wealth or fame.

We as sisters must be gentle, - patient, loving, kind,

Not thinking of ourselves, but having others on our mind.

Whenever you speak, seek to build up another,

Give loving praise, to your sister and your brother.

We must submit to authority, and respectfully obey,

Carrying fully out with joy, all that our parents say.

For we set an example, we are watched in all we do,

May our actions honor Christ, our words please Him too.

I tell you dear maiden, with siblings in your life,

Be a blessing unto others, not to them a source of strife.

Embrace the role of sister, thank God that you can see,

That He’s placed you where you are, in your own family.

When eager little hands, wish to join you in a task,

Do not sigh within your heart, and wish they did not ask.

Instead, pause and pray, that God would give to you,

Patience and forbearance, for those who follow you.

Speak of the Lord, and all that He has done,

From the beginning of each day, to the setting of the sun.

We are told to remember, the mercies of the Lord,

So speak often of His deeds, the blessings He’s out poured.

How often we forget, who’ve been blessed with sisterhood,

What a help we can be, a blessing if we would.

God’s given us a task, may it be our great delight,

To embrace this noble call, serve Him with all our might!

A Sister’s Influence - 13-25 Honorable Mention

By Miss Heather E.

A sisters role is needed,

To make the home a happy place;

To gently guide and encourage,

Her vital role can never be erased.

Her siblings depend on her instruction,

They look to her to lead;

To be the example of obedience,

The cornerstone of the family.

O Sister, I know your life is busy,

With many burdens along the way;

Do not neglect your duty,

Care for them day by day.

You have the power to influence,

Use it wisely and you shall see;

The fruitful vines rise up,

Around that olive tree.

Sister’s Place - 13-25 Honorable Mention

By Miss Moriah O.

A sister sits -

hands covering face.

What is my duty -

where is my place.

Little does she know

her place sits all around.

Her siblings lives

is where her duty’s found.

A kind word -

a cheerful smile,

these things can lighten

a sibling’s trial.

Her encouragement

and her grace,

bring a smile

to a sibling’s face.

Oh, sister

look and see

what kind of person

each aims to be.

Encourage them

along life’s way.

Encourage them

in Christ to stay.

Congratulations everyone! You all did wonderful work!

Deadline Extended!

April 28th, 2008

Well, it looks like we will be having a repeat of last year, and the Maidens of Virtue Poetry Contest deadline will have to be extended! I will let you in on a little secret and tell you that I have had an amazingly low number of entries. I won’t tell you how many, :-) but I will say that chances of winning are extremely good as of today.

If possible I do not want to have to cancel the contest… and it is that bad… so I beg of you, if you enjoy poetry, PLEASE consider entering! You have nothing to lose except 41¢ (unless you submit electronically, which is free!) and there are fantastic prizes…

The contest is now in effect until Tuesday, May 20th, 2008. And if you need to see the complete contest details, click here.

Don’t Forget!

April 23rd, 2008

Just a reminder that the deadline for the Maidens of Virtue poetry contest is just one week away!

Get your entries in soon!

(Haven’t heard about it yet? Click here to find out more!)

Send Someone a Letter

April 16th, 2008

MailboxDo it today - send a letter or even a short note to someone you know. Letter writing is becoming a lost art in today’s world of fast, free email. It’s sad, because letters are such wonderful things, both for the sender and the recipient. Who doesn’t like getting “real” mail - something other than catalogs and bills? Sure, it costs 41¢ (and counting…); but think about it. You’re paying 41¢ for a relative miracle that will bring joy to someone else - I mean, really, isn’t it amazing that you can simply write a person’s name, and some more words that are represent where they live, and it will get there even if it’s somewhere on the other side of the world (most of the time…)?

So, that said, write a letter to someone. It can be a simple note card or a volume that’s bordering on breaking the world record. Just do it. When you mail it know that you are sending off a day-brightener - and it only cost you a little time and 41¢.

(End note: Rumor has it that letter writing can be a double blessing - if you send mail, you are more likely to receive it! Makes sense to me…)

Thought for the Day

April 11th, 2008
Some people complain that God put thorns on roses, while others praise Him for putting roses on thorns.

- Anonymous

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